avoid too much auditing during decom/rebalance make it more robust (#19174)

there can be a sudden spike in tiny allocations,
due to too much auditing being done, also don't hang
on the

```
h.logCh <- entry
```

after initializing workers if you do not have a way to
dequeue for some reason.

cmd/object-api-interface.go

@@ -129,6 +129,7 @@ type ObjectOptions struct {
 	EvalRetentionBypassFn EvalRetentionBypassFn // only set for enforcing retention bypass on DeleteObject.
 
 	FastGetObjInfo bool // Only for S3 Head/Get Object calls for now
+	NoAuditLog     bool // Only set for decom, rebalance, to avoid double audits.
 }
 
 // WalkOptions provides filtering, marker and other Walk() specific options.